Every cemetery in the United States has its own set of rules governing monuments and memorials. Understanding these regulations before you begin the design process is essential for avoiding delays, additional costs, and disappointment. This guide covers the most common regulations you will encounter.
Size restrictions are the most universal regulation. Cemeteries specify maximum dimensions for monuments based on the size of the lot or plot. A single grave space typically allows a monument up to 24 inches wide, while a double space (companion lot) may allow 36 to 48 inches. Some cemeteries further restrict height, often capping it at 36 to 42 inches for upright monuments. Certain sections within a cemetery may be designated as flat-marker-only areas, where no upright monuments are permitted. Always verify the specific rules for your particular lot, not just the general cemetery guidelines.
Foundation requirements are another critical regulation. Most cemeteries require a concrete foundation beneath the monument, and they often specify the minimum depth, width, and reinforcement. Some cemeteries insist on pouring the foundation themselves (at an additional cost to the family), while others allow the monument company's crew to handle it. The foundation must typically extend several inches beyond the monument's base on all sides to provide stability and prevent settling.
The approval process varies by cemetery but generally follows a similar pattern. You or your monument company submit a drawing or proof of the proposed monument to the cemetery office. They review it against their regulations, check the inscription for accuracy, and verify that it fits within the lot's allowances. Approval can take anywhere from a few days to several weeks. During busy seasons in spring and early summer, expect longer review times.
Material and finish regulations exist at some cemeteries. Certain cemeteries require specific granite colors — for example, all-gray or all-dark sections for visual uniformity. Others may restrict the type of finish, prohibiting rough or unpolished surfaces on the face of the monument. Some historic cemeteries have rules about monument style to maintain the aesthetic character of the grounds. Religious cemeteries may have additional requirements about symbols, inscriptions, and design elements. A knowledgeable monument company will be familiar with these various requirements and guide you accordingly.